blog #three

You may know that I just got back from a trip to Tulum, Mexico with a great group of friends! For the week, it was three couples and your little Bae by all herself. It was an incredible experience and I felt lucky to be there; the locals were friendly, the food was great, and the beach was healing. What I want to write about now, however, is what I learned about friendship during the trip:
 

Every couple in my group had their own awesome experiences, but I felt lucky to be solo because I felt like it allowed me to go with the flow, focus on me, and observe all the people around me. I got to see their interpersonal dynamics as an outside party, which is a perspective brand new to me.

What really hit home for me is how important it is to surround yourself with good people. I would even say that it’s better to be alone than to be around bad people. Through the week in Mexico, I was able to see an array of their relationship dynamics and took what I felt was valuable insight: The people we allow in our lives play the ultimate role in shaping our experiences, influencing our emotions, and impacting our overall well being.

Understanding the importance of selecting the right people for your inner circle and prioritizing your emotional health can make a profound difference in your life. The people you surround yourself with will either uplift or drain you. Positive, supportive friends encourage growth and contribute to a more optimistic life. They celebrate your successes and provide a comforting presence during tough times. Emotions are contagious! Being around individuals who are emotionally balanced and resilient will bring you a similar mindset in yourself. However, consistently engaging with negative or toxic people can lead to diminished sense of self-worth and happiness.

Friendships and relationships based on shared values and goals will be fulfilling. When your friends understand and support your aspirations, they contribute to your sense of purpose and direction. A healthy friend circle encourages mutual growth. Friends who challenge you intellectually, support your ambitions, and inspire you to be your best self contribute positively to your personal development. I encourage regularly thinking about the quality of your relationships. Are they supportive and positive? Do they contribute to your happiness and growth? 

Choosing the right people to be in your life and taking care of your emotional health are vital if you want to lead a fulfilling and balanced life. By surrounding yourself with supportive, positive individuals and prioritizing your well being, you lay the foundation for personal growth and lasting happiness. You have the power to shape your environment and to nurture your soul —both of which are key to living a more vibrant, sexy 😉, and satisfying life. I love my friends and I love myself. I want the best for everyone. I want to see them continue to lead a healthy, positive life and I hope that I can continue to encourage growth in that direction.

I hope that you feel the same way and see the importance of surrounding yourself with positive people who challenge you to be better. If you don’t have that right now, it’s okay!  Just be alone instead of being with negative people.  Personally, I've found that being my own best friend has brought me tremendous confidence in myself. The right people will find you. You just have to be open to it, patient, and work towards putting yourself out there. Just remember, staying the same will not bring you all the good things that I know you deserve. 

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